Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Jacob Pickett Bendrey with the following comment:
I am researching my family tree. Jacob Picket Bendrey was my great grandfather. His son, James Thomas Bendrey (my grandfather) had a daughter, Hilda Bendrey, who was my grandmother. She married Heath Thornton Crouch, I believe in South Africa, where they lived. I live in Scotland now, and until I started my family tree, I believed I had no relatives in the UK. I am not so sure now, which is why I am following up the tree. Many many thanks for your help. Dorothy Crouch